2021.12.01 22:09 eternalwhat This little tent thing is one of the best drunk purrchases I've made for my cats 🦁
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2021.12.01 22:09 TACOCATDELICIOSO Last minute, but I have a free ticket to tonight’s show in LA if anyone wants it. PM me.
2021.12.01 22:09 That-Measurement-607 I (20NB) got angry at my friend (20M) and told him to get his shit together and he got annoyed and complained on Twitter about it
For context, we've been friends for +3 years now, and we and are in the same club and the same friend group, so keep in mind I have to keep seing this person regularly
My friend, let's call him Dave, has always been tight with money. We've always been very close so I've tried to help him by getting him a few odd jobs through my mother. He doesn't study and doesn't have (and never had) a job. He's been doing basically nothing since I've met him, except being a part of our club. He gets his "income" (like 10-30 dollars a month) filming videos and taking pictures even though he has no professional training, which is okay I guess because I think he's quite good. The thing is, he initially wanted to be a photographer, but he has lost interest on most things, including people, and he has stopped making any effort to get a job or study. Instead, he spends most of his time playing videogames and going to the club meetings. He complains about money but has not done enough to get out of his situation. He doesn't want to study for a driver's license (which could get him a job as a delivery man), he doesn't want to work with children, clean or teach anyone. He doesn't have a specific field he likes, specially since photography is no longer his interest. He keeps complaining it's hard to find a job but he is honestly not really trying.
He has asked all of our friends to avoid talking about these issues, as it makes him feel insecure. I've always respected this but the other day he drew the line and I couldn't help but lecture him.
On one of the few odd jobs I've gotten him, he was asked to take some pictures for my mother's magazine. He's not a professional photographer, as I said before, but he knows his way with a camera so I trusted him. Well... apparently he felt lazy that day and took some half-assed photos, most of them out of focus. His attitude that day was really closed off and disinterested, which made everyone on the shoot uncomfortable. This has really inconvenienced my mother and she was reconsidering paying him, as my mother is not exactly well-off either (she pays out of her own pocket since it's a start-up, and we barely make it every month).
I messaged him about it, and his attitude again just seemed extremely disinterested and as if he didn't understand the impact of his actions. Even when I told him I would not call him again, he said "You better not" and "Just don't pay me". I got very annoyed and started telling him off, saying that if he commits to something, he should try and give his 100% percent, even if he doesn't feel in the mood that day. He just said sorry and he started ignoring my messages.
On one of the messages, I told him that he needs to get his shit together. He didn't reply to me and instead went on Twitter and posted "I'm sick of people commenting on my life and telling me to get a job or study. I feel like shit and the day has just begun". I felt very disappointed at his immature behavior and I've really lost the respect I had for him.
I've been very angry about this issue for the last couple of days, he betrayed my trust and made things difficult for my mother who has done nothing wrong and always tried to help him. It makes me angry how someone can be so entitled and childish.
I really don't feel like being their friend anymore, but I can't avoid him and I am trying to come up with a better way to fix this. My concern is that 1) I'm not sure if I am right 2) I can't pretend everything is okay. I really don't want to waste my energy on having a conversation with him about this, and I don't even know what to do about it. I really just want to tell him to fuck off, but I'm scared of becoming the bad guy here. I am also not sure if it's okay to be rude to someone even if you're mad at them. At the end, I don't want to be a people pleaser and I want to honor my anger and fight for my boundaries. What do you think I should do? What do you think is the best way for me to look at this issue? Thank you.
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2021.12.01 22:09 bremergorst [WTS] Lancer and PMAG 7.62 (MN)
Two 25 round Lancer L7 AWM in Translucent Smoke
One 20 round Lancer L7 AWM in Translucent Smoke
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One PMAG Gen 3 - 25 round Window
Would like to sell all together $140 shipped - PayPal
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2021.12.01 22:09 turniparmy2 Anyone know if they place to drop the price of scotch now that the Trump tax was repealed?
The 25% tax that Trump put on scotch was suspended all the way back in March of this year, but PLCB still hasn't adjusted their prices. Has anyone heard if this is planned or are we just gonna pay that extra 25% forever now?
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2021.12.01 22:09 DefyGravity42 2nd Ed AD&D Silver Dragon
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2021.12.01 22:09 rew4747 Did I Just Summarize All Jack Reacher Novels in 14 words‽
2021.12.01 22:09 Fanta333444 Dibuje a mi avatar
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2021.12.01 22:09 Collective1985 Which group would have anti-extraterrestrial sentiment in the United States?
2021.12.01 22:09 Flioxan Matt Zenitz on Twitter: Marcus Freeman is expected to be the next head coach at Notre Dame, sources tell On3
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2021.12.01 22:09 AjentSushi I feel like the snap on the second guy makes up for the potato on the first? maybee? LUL
2021.12.01 22:09 Chuppeh Last second save - twitch.tv/chuppeee
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2021.12.01 22:09 Kayy200 Hey I'm a starting out youtuber can yall watch a video i made a tell me anything i can improve on
2021.12.01 22:09 Water-SLAPS Hopefully they make the monk usable soon since some of us will be unlocking the el primo skin tomorrow.
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2021.12.01 22:09 MediocreAttributes The "time loop" sub-genre/plot device. Is it a dead concept for spec scripts?
A few months back I read a comment from an experienced writer on here who advised against writing specs that revolve around a "time loop" plot device, the reason being that the industry is apparently oversaturated with these and managers are refusing that kind of material.
This surprised me as there really aren't that many produced mainstream time loop films, and all of them seem to do reasonably well critically and/or at the box office. Just off the top of my head - Groundhog Day, Palm Springs, Edge of Tomorrow, Happy Death Day 1 & 2, Source Code, Boss Level, Triangle. TV wise, it's just Russian Doll. There are others, but the point is that there aren't tons of these out there.
Reading that piece of advice knocked me back a little in that I have a long-gestating outline which revolves around a time loop and I really feel I've got "something" with it. That comment certainly made me rethink it, but I still love my idea and feel it is marketable.
So, as a complete unknown looking to break in, should I completely drop this idea? Is the time loop sub-genre dead or should I just have confidence in my ability and idea, and if it's good enough get the attention it merits?
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2021.12.01 22:09 TheBlackG3cko Cirez D / Adam Beyer - 12/4 1 ticket
2021.12.01 22:09 anmoratus PRIVATE Minecraft launchers?
TLauncher is spyware. A lot of launcher is spyware. And all launchers appear to be closed source. I have looking for some alternatives in this sub but I still lack enough info, Crystal Launcher has no opinions, SKLauncher seems good and seems also to have a GitHub page, but users can see your skin and probably more things, and you apparently need to be online to change skin which makes me suspicious.
Is there any launcher that:
2021.12.01 22:09 Ok-Brick8054 Stays On Minimized Mode All The Time
I have 4k stogram&4k downloader. However, for a while 4k stogram stays as minimized and never fully opens.
i cannot reach the app like this so i can't use. How can i solve this problem?
it's only happening with 4k stogram.
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2021.12.01 22:09 milwaukees_finest420 The Truth About Danny Duncan
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2021.12.01 22:09 mattycamachio [NFL on CBS] Marlon Humphrey leads the league this season in most incompletions caused, as primary defender with 39. J.C Jackson is second with 38, while Anthony Brown and Eric Stokes are tied with 37.
2021.12.01 22:09 austin3456 Emeline Ponthieu
2021.12.01 22:09 Neroclypse Something something women can only think one way because biology something something
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