What are some good resources, and any advice you could give?

2022.01.16 16:42 Suspicious_Quail_820 What are some good resources, and any advice you could give?

My husband and I moved in with my mom in mid-2019 to help her with day- to-day living after she had a medium size stroke. At the time she didn't necessarily need a lot of care, but she couldn't drive due to her poor eye sight, and it was just easier to be there for her than to plan trips to her house several times a week because we lived over an hour a way at that time. She's been kind of going down hill ever since, growing weaker and her eyes sight and hearing and, her overall desire to do things steadily declined. (the more we do for her, the less she does for herself). Right now we believe she has just emotionally given up, but her body keeps going on. Her mother did the same thing.
Over the last few months my mom has shown significant cognitive decline. She rarely says anything any more and seems to lose focus easily. Like if you ask one question and then ask it in a different way or with more detail, she gets confused. Also, it takes her so long to answer simple questions I often think maybe she didn't even hear me. Within the last week she has had two episodes of low blood pressure (which we have a doctor appointment for), but yesterday she took a shower while I was out running errands. (We had already agreed she wouldn't shower unless someone was home with her, but she either didn't remember or was being independent). She ended up sitting on the floor under running water for 3 hours until I got home. Thankfully she didn't break a hip or something. We are getting her Life Alert now.
So that's our situation. Mom is on medicare and has a fixed income consisting of social security income and a very small monthly retirement disbursement. Her house payment is low and she has a substantial amount of equity, and a small savings account. We are in Colorado. Over the last 3 years with Covid, job loss, living off our savings, and especially giving up our own place and rent/housing prices rising so drastically, we don't have a lot of spare cash or much open credit.
We know nothing, and I really do mean nothing, about how to deal with this so I need to start educating myself on options.
1-Any advice for her care now and ideas for things that may arise in the future. I know I can google resources, but I would like to know what others have gone through. I find that the whole population of Reddit shows me things that I never knew could happen or existed, so stories are welcome.
2--Does anyone know where I could get some reliable legal advice regarding dealing with her finances. She has made her will, but that doesn't help me in dealing with things she can no longer make decisions for now. Is there a particular type of lawyer I would look for? What questions should I ask?
3-One of my main concerns is mom being able to keep her house. I've heard that if she has significant medical bills, medicare would take her home to help pay for them. (with the great amount of equity she has, I believe that would be one of the first things they would do.) If they took her house, we may not be able to afford a home that would accommodate her. She can't climb any stairs and she's nearly blind and knows her way around this house. Mom having to go to a nursing home is my greatest nightmare. I was wondering if it's possible or wise to talk to her about putting the house in my name, so she'd always have a home no matter what happens to her medically and financially.
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2022.01.16 16:42 flicmybic365247 Is it time to leave?

I (30M) married my best friend and someone I had a real connection with (40F) 6 years ago. We met as teachers across the hall from each other. We got married fairly early,dating for only a yr and moved together after 8months.Few red flags(hovering baby dad,family didnt take us seriously,very flirtatious, no work place boundaries,etc)but figured my persistence would fix that as I was working on myself as well.First 2 years were good. 3rd year I started having mental health issues (Army Vet).I slowly spiraled under leaving a vast majority of the finances on her.4th yr We moved to another state and things were going well until I lost a good job due to episodes. I immediately got a small gig at a vape shop and gave every cent to my wife for bills . We lost our home at no fault of our own and had to move with a relative.
This is when things get interesting. Eventually (and against my wishes) she took a late evening job. Something immediately seemed strange but I Ignored it. I had made plans with my dad to move back to our original state for a better job and stay with him while I get a new place for us to live. Wife dropped me off at train station with a kiss and in my head it seemed all was going According to plan. Once I got to dad's house it's revealed some how they'd been in communication and this was just a ploy to get me away for a second so she could be single and on her own and I couldn't live with him. He said this and laughed. I immediately felt betrayed and went back to the state I came from to find she was gone. I had nothing at this point...No car,job,wife,home but I was determined.I suck it up and find 3 jobs around-the-clock. Eventually wife and I talk and start dating again.
On one night in particular I plan the most romantic date I've ever seen. We go out,personal chef,beach resort with balcony. It was great. During this visit I find she's been cheating since before I left to be with my dad with someone she met at that evening job.I had met this guy and even asked about it. I was disgusted and hurt and eventually found that it was 2 ppl she was seeing. I Eventually suck it up (I did my own dirt when we were first dating and took it as karma even tho she didn't know) but I had to be away from her since we were married now and I take those vows seriously.
5th yr we're separated and during this time I'm up a full 360Β°. New apartment,new friends, new car,new job making 8,500 a month.I had healed. No episodes,all the things she complained about that made me immature I fixed. I mean I was a catch if I may say so. We are now in the 6th yr.Wife convinces me to come visit her and said maybe we should work things out. I agree and come to visit. That very weekend after we had committed to being exclusive a guy calls. She begs me not leave and says I should stay. I did stay. I got the good job in her area(took a 50% paycut), bought her a car after hers cluncked out,took care of finances and the home like I had practiced the yr prior. Well I guess she felt safe and her teenage son moved in.I had no problem with this since it's all she's ever talked about and I figured that was my duty.I take care of all 3 of us. She only pays 2 small bills and all other financial expenses come from me. Recently they've been home because we're headed towards another lockdown.her for a month him him 3 wks.I've been irritated because her son eats nonstop,she literally smokes all of my bud which is my only vice,and constantly is asking me to do things but won't pitch in at all.I rarely complain.when I want sex or some head it's a task to even get her interested. She cooks ever so often and cleans on her time.but loves to throw out gender roles when she needs something.I can't relax for an hr after work while she does the bare minimum. I now feel like we've done a 360 where she's the old me and I'm where should used to be.I did the work to fix credit and started saving and now I can't save for the home and other investments becauseof her and her son. She pushes all my thoughts and feelings aside.Literally struggled to apologize for cheating on me and didn't no work to heal me but wonders why I'm on on fence with trust.. I know this is all over the place but u need help.What should I do?
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